Love El Amor Hlub Ruk Koi

A simple word yet so intense, so powerful.

Cause so much emotional pain. So much mental suffering. To many men and women, boyfriends and girlfriends, husbands and wives.

If it’s love, it shouldn’t cause pain.

If it’s love, shouldn’t it make you feel good, joy and happy?

Think about it!

What is love?

Pause. Think about love for a moment. Dwell deep into it.

What is love?

When you think of love, do you feel emotional pain or joy?

If you love someone, a girlfriend or boyfriend, husband or wife but that someone always make you suffer. Always make you feel emotional pain. Always make you feel miserable. Always make you not want to eat. Always make you not want to sleep. Always make you not want to study. Always make you not want to work. Always make you not want to do a thing. Always make you feel depress. Always make you feel stress. Always make you feel anger. Obviously, I am speaking from a heterosexual perspective.

Do you think it is love?

Think about it!

The love I’m talking about here is the love between a man and woman. It is the most important love. Love between a man and woman is to feel an intense, deep romantic, chemical or sexual attachment to a person. Usually to the opposite sex such as male to female, and female to male. Love between a man and woman is a strong bond, a strong sexual attachment between a man and woman. A strong like for him/her. A strong feeling for him/her. A strong caring for him/her.

Why do you want to love your man or woman? What makes you want to love him/her? What does he/she do to you that deserves your affection and concern? You love him/her. You make him/her feel happy, but he or she doesn't make you feel happy, is that love? If he/she lies to you, cheats you, deceives you or use and abuse you, is that love?

Think about the time you feel love for your girlfriend/boyfriend. Do you make him/her suffer?

Many people misunderstood love. They misunderstood love for pain. Mental pain. Emotional pain. Pain is not love. Pain is evil. Pain is suffering. Pain is torture. Pain is ignorance. Pain is foolishness.

Love IS NOT CAUSING the person you love to suffer: feel miserable, depress, stress, worry or angry. When a man or woman loves you, he/she would never want you to suffer, to feel miserable, depress, stress, worry or angry because he/she wants you to be feel good. He/she wants you to be able to focus and function- work, do your job, go to school, study and do what you love to do. He/she wants you to feel happy. When you love a man or woman, you would do the same.

Lie, Cheat, Deceive. Use and Abuse. Cause the person you love to suffer emotional and mental pain.

Love is being honest, truthful, faithful, sincere and genuine.